Not long at all! In fact, I really enjoy long asks 🙂
How does Garrus continue to hold onto his distrust for Sidonis, particularly once they find out that their respective sons are a couple?
Garrus is a bit more tolerant of Sidonis ever since the end of the war where he kept Aria from killing Sidonis. He still wouldn’t trust Sidonis as explicitly as he once did and would never allow his children to rely on Sidonis, but they’re all lucky in that aspect because Sidonis has taken to life planetside.
As for his views of Aeson, he has no ill feelings towards the kid, just his father. Garrus doesn’t blame Aeson for any of his father’s failings and doesn’t hold it against him. Admittedly, his own life as a father, he knows what it’d be like to have his child held accountable to his own doing, so he uses that concept to treat Aeson right.
Does it ever become an issue or do they generally steer clear of each other to make life easier?
On principle, Sidonis tends to steer clear of Garrus. He’s considered part of the Normandy family, sure, but there will always be that bit of Archangel in there judging the turian. Whenever there are gatherings, you won’t see the two together, but when it comes to close family when the children grow into adults and the two dads have to be together, Sidonis usually cows to Garrus. Sidonis wants to avoid conflict at any cost, so it usually leads to him and Garrus pointedly ignoring one another. It’s actually pretty ridiculous.
Do Damocles/Aeson ever have to step in and diffuse a situation, and do they ever discuss what happened between their dads?
Again, Sidonis tries to stay away from conflict. If anyone is going to step into the way of anything between them, it’ll be Jane getting after Garrus, not the kids. Damocles knows his mother has more sway with his dad, so he mostly gears himself up for any time he needs to back Aeson against anything.
They have talked about it. Damocles shares his dad’s view of not judging Aeson because, if anyone would know what it’s like to suffer prejudice, it’s Damo. Neither know exactly what happened and why, only what stories their parants have, so they can’t really say if anyone was to blame or if Garrus was right in his actions. Damocles does, however, respect Sidonis for accepting his guilt, wearing his scars, and, in a way, teaching Aeson not to do as he had done. Aeson doesn’t like what happened to his father because he both doesn’t like to see his father’s pain, but because he is against most violence. He doesn’t blame Garrus for an unjust punishment because, like I said, he doesn’t know what happened, but he does know that turians punish crimes like treason much differently than other species. It’s kinda like that thing where you know what happens with someone commits treason and know you should be impartial, but you don’t want to think about it being so close to home because you both love the person and don’t want to think of the violent act itself.
Thanks for the asks!